People must grow up, but unfortunately, no matter how close two people are or how deep their feelings are, if they do not grow together, it will inevitably harm the relationship. So, students, you must pay attention, love and marriage are really very important things in life, but they must be maintained at all times. How to maintain it? It's not just about scheduling a candlelight dinner regularly, or how to keep the passion and freshness of the pre-marital phase; it's not just superficial. You need to maintain the speed of your spiritual growth and ensure that the direction of your growth is consistent. If you cannot achieve this, you will really drift apart to such an extent that it will mean the two people have become strangers. You can cooperate in life, but spiritually, you are truly strangers, and such a situation cannot last.